Imagine how the world would be

Sometimes it is okay to:

• Stay in your pjs all day and watch Lifetime
• Occasionally spend hours laughing at Youtube videos
• Have jelly beans for lunch
• Dislike someone for no other reason than you just do
• Say “because I said so” and believe 100% that it is a good enough reply
• Curse like a trucker while looking like a lady
• Believe what you want to believe, leave reality for another day
• Have an opinion that you have formed with nothing to back it up…just because and stick to it
• Be a full fledged snob about certain things
• Adamantly believe that your opinion should matter to everyone
• Once in a while spend too much money buying frivolous things online
• Order a large mocha chocolate shake when you are feeling blah
• Order a large mocha chocolate shake when you are feeling happy
• Listen to country music and know all the words *don’t judge me*
• Wish you had done certain things a bit differently in life
• Accept your faults and realize they make up who you are
• Have a broken heart
• Kiss your animals on the lips, germs be damned
• Wonder why people you don’t even know, worry about what you do
• Crawl into your husband’s/boyfriend’s lap and ask to just be held
• Have a pity party for yourself, by yourself…corner booth, by the window
• Admit you aren’t as strong as you pretend to be
• Trust everyone, regardless of naysayers or how you have been hurt in the past
• Dance around the house really badly to songs that remind you of being 16 yo
• Next time your spouse asks you what is for dinner, tell them “me” and mean it
• Know you are pretty and be proud of the person you are – that one is ALWAYS okay
• Just listen…not say a word and listen so you can hear between the lines
• Eat in bed while watching really bad movies
• Think about sex while at church
• Be snarky
• Miss him/her
• Write down whatever you are feeling, hit draft, revisit it at a later date when you are feeling better, and quickly hit delete
• Write down whatever you are feeling, hit send - send it into the universe and hope for the best
• Fake it
• Spend an entire day reading and doing nothing else
• Miss your parents, regardless of how old you are
• Explore something that scares you
• Take a break
• Get really angry over something you cannot help
• Ask God, universe, or whomever you believe in being your greater power for help and guidance
• Simply sigh instead of answer someone
• Leave a difficult situation unresolved, just walk away from it
• Drunk dial/text/email/message
• Be okay with not understanding everything about a situation, sometimes understanding just enough is just right
• Let go
• Stop in the middle of a raging fight and just kiss him/her
• Give in
• Admit that none of the songs you blog are random and each is for a reason
• Be afraid
• Say the hell with it…and just try regardless of anything but what you want
• Be selfish
• Love too much


love, Romy